Life has various complex definotions like love. Life is love and love is addiction. Addiction then leads to adaptation then lead to survival and thats how we live. If you are adapted to social life then its hard to survive in silent lonely places. If you are adapted to drugs and substance abuse then whenever you miss it it becomes a misery. Whenever you used to be with families them boarding school life becomes hard to start-up until you adapt and learn to survive. This is same to hardwork, progress, motivation, focus, persistence, procastinators, gossip, fraud and discouragements all these need to be adapted. Failure to adapt, failure to survive.