Have you ever been into a confli-ct or argument? You try to force to be understood. You feel like you are innocent and the other party is guilty. You want to be the powerful one and head of the conversation. You never consider what the other party to be saying anything important. You keep waiting for your turn to speak or you want to interfere in the middle of others talking. All you want is to be recognised as the right and powerful one. You even think of facts and ideas to win over.