Is new man interested in love or just wants to use me?

I have just started seeing a new man. We have been talking for about two weeks and we have been out on one date. I really like him but I feel hesistant to invest my emotions in him because I have been burned many times in the past. Guys have lied to me that they’re interested in a relationship only to disappear after we sleep together. He seems great, he says all the right things but can I fully believe him?

Claire, Kisii

Don’t takr a man’s word when it comes to dating. A man will agree to anything to get sex. Instead, let his actions speak for him. You are not obligated to sleep with everyone who says he wants a relationship with you. Be selective with the men you date and hold off on sex until their actions prove that they are not just looking to ‘hit it and quit it’.


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