He now gets moody and wants to be sweet-talked

My boyfriend and I have been together for one and a half years. He has recently started this habit of being passive aggressive. He gets upset over little things and then stops talking to me or just being distant when I try to talk to him. I usually end up having to apologise and beg for him to stop ignoring me. We had an argument yesterday and he is ignoring me again. What should I do?

Maureen, Nairobi

Begging and pleading will only enable his behaviour. Leave him alone and go on with your life. When he is ready to handle conflict like an adult he will come and find you. This is not a relationship I would encourage you stay in. He is immature and inconsiderate. You deserve better.


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