There is this man I am interested in. We were supposed to go out last weeknd but he cancelled, saying hehad come down with the flu. He wants to reschedule and meet me this weeknd, but I feel like I shouldn’t be too available for him. I want to tell him I am busy this weeknd even though I am not so that he can see that my time is valuable.
I don’t advocate for playing games in a relationship. Do you have any proof to support your suspicion that he wasn’t really sick? If not, why don’t give him the benefit of a doubt and accept his reschedule offer and see how it goes. These teenage games of pretending to be busy to punish him won’t get you anywhere.