I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years. He is a wonderful guy but I met a man at work about a year ago and we developed a friendship and ended up failing in love with each other. We haven’t done anything yet but I want to see where our love take us. I don’t know how to break the news to my boyfriend that I have fallen in love with another man. I don’t want to hurt him. What do I do?
Obviously, you have to break up with your boyfriend but he doesn’t need to know there is another man in the picture. Simply tell him that things are not working out for you, which they clearly aren’t instead of you have feelings for another man. Try to keep your new relationship under wraps for awhile after the break up.