He claims we’re just having fun, is age an issue?

I am a 22-year-old in love with a 35-year-old man. He says I am too young for him so he can’t commit to me. We have a casual relationship. We see each other regularly. I am completely in love with him. I don’t care about the age difference. He says our relationship is casual but I am the only woman he is with. Could it be that he feels the same way about me but is afraid to make things official because of age difference?

Pauline, Mombasa

Probably not. When a man tells you how he feels, believe him. If he wanted to make things official but was afraid, he would tell you that and being the only woman he is sleeping with doesn’t mean anything. It could be that sleeping with you is convenient for him until he is ready to find a woman he will want to settle down with.


1 thought on “He claims we’re just having fun, is age an issue?”

  1. I am, honestly married with a man 18 years younger I am 64 years old and did not want to marry him but he waited for me 4 years and chased me around. We have been together 24 years and live each other deeply. We have a relationship with Jesus and trying to walk the walk every day. Don’t trust him.

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