1. They are always distracted
Essentialism by Greg Makenown He said once a time someone met him but inthe middle of conversation, someone call that guy through phone/text and without concern he left mackenown and began to talk to look foward to text. Thats how he missed up the great opportunity that was knocking.
2. They only talk the talk
You know whats better than talking about something? Doing it.
Keep your goals to yourself
There is no need to keep telling people your goals, movement and strategies because first, it has no importance and second, they will try all means to make it hard for you to archieve easily. Try for instance say ” Im starting a business or Im starting a marathon” The crazy thing is how people react. They apploud you for announcing something. Saying you want to run amarathon and actually running a marathon is totally different. When you tell someone your goal and they acknowledge it psychologist have found that it’s called a social reality. The mind is kind of tricked into feeling that is already done. And then because you’ve felt that satisfaction, you’re less motivated to actual to do the actual hardwork necessary.
3. They spend time with losers
Spend enought time with losers, you will become one. Apply this analogy to any type of person. Hang out with fit if you wabt to be fit. People feed off each others energy.
What’s better if yoyr friend asking when you’re going to the gym, or your friend asking to go out for the time that week.
4. They hate everything
They especially people that are doing well. Why can’t you be happy for other? Don’t worry you won’t be a pollyanna, you can still you be cool and positive. Give people some love. They even hate things that just are “Ugh it rained this morning and my hair got all messsed up. I hate rain” come on really? Having a bad day is ok- everyone gets irritable once in a while. But if you always hate everything, you will have a bad life.
5. They procastinate
“Im perfectly happy to extend your deadline by a week”
“Will you eassy be better if you had it in a week from now”
Only delay things when you will do a better job tommorow. Do it now or do it better later.
6. They dont listen to others
Unsuccessful people only love themselves. To be honest we all love ourselves but if you are unsuccessful you ONLY love your self.
We listen to others because we care about them. “How else can you show care?”
Ask, Listen, Care, Repeat
7. They are lazy
Never feel like doing anything? We all have been there. Not feeling likw going to dinber with your parents. Not feeling like buying an awesome present for your Mothers’ day. Let face it, its all because we are lazy. Be a sport and get off your couch_ participate with your family, friends, partner etc.
The beauty often lies in new and novel experiences
When you’re lazy, you dont even give yourself a chance to experience new things. It’s also not fair to the people in you life.
8. They dont learn
Learning is one of the difficult things in the world. Its not a suprise that many people rarely read books, never finish school, or never learn from their mistakes.
Learning is a struggle.
We live in the most exciting time in the history of learners. The access to information had never easy. In the past, if your dad was a farmer, you become a farmer thinga were like that.
Now you can be anything you want, just neeed to learn a bout it.
9. They are not nice
Somehow people thinkits cool to be Jerk Honestly its way cooler to be nice. You don’t have to be a buddish, monk or anything, just to be a nice person. Try it sometime, you might make a few new friends. And if you have difficult defined what a nice person is you are likely a Jerk. Be optimistic in life.
10. They are quiters
I saved the worst for last
Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is to always to try just one more time.
- Never give up.